The truth is that, often times, those of us in this business find ourselves struggling to say only good things about a recently deceased personality whose acts in life demanded that we make him or her known to the public. With Vernon Forrest, it seemed to be the opposite.It is not manufactured hyperbole for the purpose of being polite that you are hearing and reading such wonderful things about Forrest, a three-time boxing champ who we learned Sunday was fatally shot Saturday night in a carjacking attempt in Atlanta. A more famous Atlanta fighter, Evander Holyfield, may be most well-known as the Real Deal, but there was absolutely nothing phony about the good guy who was Forrest. As HBO Sports president Ross Greenburg, whose network carried many of Forrest's bouts, told the Associated Press on Sunday of Forrest: "He was one of the most gracious and charitable fighters in boxing and he will be missed by the entire boxing community and all of his friends at HBO."
Forrest told this story any time he was asked. It goes that he was hanging out at the home of a friend who worked with the psychologically and emotionally challenged. (How novel is that? He wasn't hanging out at the strip club or dogfighting ring.) He watched one of those in his friend's stead, an autistic child, who Forrest said struggled for an hour to tie his shoes.
Forrest said he became so frustrated watching the child fight to do something most of us take for granted that he could no longer take it for granted. His friend refused to help the child because the friend hoped the child would break through alone. The child's battle broke Forrest, however, and Forrest eventually helped the child tie his shoes. Then Forrest set out to help others with similar struggles.
"If you sit there and watch a person take about an hour to tie his shoestrings, then you realize that whatever problems you got ain't that significant," Forrest recounted to the New York Times in August 2006 before a match against Ike Quartey. "A light just turned on in my head."
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It was the mid-'90s when Forrest had his epiphany. He was closing in on 20 professional fights without a loss but didn't have much bank or accolades to show for it. A native of Augusta, Ga., Forrest had planned to jumpstart his pro career in 1992 like Oscar De La Hoya with an Olympic gold medal from the Barcelona Games, but he was easily upset in his opening match and said afterward that he'd been stricken with food poisoning.
Nonetheless, Forrest scrapped together around $80,000 with some other easily touched people, like his hip-hop video friend Ki Toy Johnson, and formed a company called Destiny's Child Inc. Their idea: to provide long-term care to people like the autistic child whose shoestrings he helped tie.
Forrest, who studied business administration at Northern Michigan University, and his partners purchased a suburban Atlanta home in 1996 and retrofitted it for the demands of their business. Destiny's Child, which took in patients from institutions or families that were no longer able to care for them, didn't get any cheaper to finance than it was to start up. This was healthcare, after all, the very industry President Obama and many others are saying is too costly to meet the needs of everyone who should have it and, as a result, needs to be reformed. Forrest was experiencing all of that.Forrest's payroll grew to include as many as 25 caregivers, coordinators, and administrative staff. There was a $5 million insurance policy as protection against malpractice that he had to pick up. And in 2000, the state of Georgia requested that Forrest's company take in 17 patients who were enrolled in a competing firm that folded. Forrest couldn't say no to the extra patients anymore than he could sit idly by as that autistic kid fought to tie his shoes.
It didn't matter that the increased patient load nearly bankrupted Destiny's Child.
The story continues that, with Forrest at the helm, Destiny's Child picked up the clothing and medical cost for the new patients. Forrest was said to have financed the entire $100,000 rescue operation. It would be six more months before Medicaid payments kicked in.
"One of the things that I always wanted to do is help people out," Forrest told Black Enterprise magazine in March 2003. "But I didn't want to do something cosmetic. I want to know what I do is going to make a difference in somebody's life."
"I didn't want to do something cosmetic. I want to know what I do is going to make a difference in somebody's life."
-- Vernon Forrest By 2003, Black Enterprise stated that Forrest's altruistic venture had 30 patients and generated just over $1 million in annual revenues that were derived mostly from Medicaid reimbursements.
"Our objective as a whole is to make sure nobody is abused or mistreated, and so we try to do right by the people we have there," Forrest told the magazine.
Forrest was standing out in the ring by then, too. He was 35-0 at the end of 2002 after beating Shane Mosley in back-to-back fights to win and retain the World Boxing Council's welterweight title. He was Ring magazine's Fighter of the Year.
That proved to be Forrest's zenith in the ring. He lost for the first time in 2003, twice to Ricardo Mayorga. After battling his way back to a light middleweight title in 2007, he lost it to a star from the boxing reality show The Contender, Sergio Mora, in 2008. He got the belt back in a rematch.
But ultimately Forrest will not be remembered by what he did as a prizefighter. He'll be recalled for what he did as a fighter for people not as fortunate as he was.
Vernon Forrest didn't just sound like one of the good guys in the sport of boxing. He sounded like one of the good guys in sports, period.













Reader Comments (Page 1 of 13)
7-26-2009 @ 11:45PM
dlmatthews said...
May God bless the Forrest family. We have lost a great man in his own right. It's just ashame that he lost his life over a car.
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7-27-2009 @ 7:52AM
paladia2 said...
i agree with you. how strange that i never heard of mr. forrest when he was alive, but his story would make me a fan of his at the drop of a hat. it is stories like this that make me remember there are still some good people in this world, and as the mother of an autistic child, i know how frustrating life can be with one afflicted with this hideous disease.
God indeed bless his family and may he rest in peace and may the thugs that killed him go into eternal torment. that is a fitting punishment for them.
7-27-2009 @ 9:42AM
scottnsandrac said...
AMEN
7-27-2009 @ 10:38AM
tricia said...
I am so sorry for his family. God bless this wonderful man!
7-28-2009 @ 11:33AM
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7-27-2009 @ 6:14AM
jimhack3 said...
GOD Bless the Forrest Family.
R.I.P. VF
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7-27-2009 @ 6:15AM
Kips Hayes said...
Ok you bunch of morons calling yourselves theAmerican Civil Liberties Union, let's make sure that the punks of killed Mr. Forrest get a fair and unbiased trial....afterall, they really didn't mean to kill Mr. Forrest, he just happened to get in the way of a bullet that was meant for an innocent child.
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7-27-2009 @ 11:54AM
mselub said...
Who you callin' moron, you moron? The ACLU is there to protect the civil liberties of ALL, Right, Left or middle and it has done so for almost 100 years. Only a miserable Right Wingnut would be critical of an organization that is the foremost guardian of our Constitutional rights.
7-27-2009 @ 2:10PM
jamesontrout said...
you are right on !!
7-27-2009 @ 6:17AM
rzrbak68 said...
What a wonderful man. I don't think I ever saw him fight, but my God, what a loss.
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7-27-2009 @ 6:36AM
DLS said...
these personal tragedies that are occuring daily in cities across America need to be addressed by Professor Gates and President Obama. We far surpass the Vietnam War and Iraq in these killings. Racial profiling, discrimination and abuse are terrible things, but this is murder-- every day.
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7-27-2009 @ 10:30AM
laurarvail1 said...
DLS - i agree with you one thousand percent. It's regrettable we're at war, and there are casualties, and I do not discount one life lost in Afghanistan or Iraq - that person was some mother's child. However, how many have died on US streets, over stupidity, jealousy, material things, misunderstandings, and plain old rage? We haven't lost, in Afghanistan and Iraq combined over the last four years, what we lost in VietNam in three weeks, or at Omaha Beach, in one day. Yet, on city streets, people are mutilated, maimed, killed, violated, abused, and left as trash in the gutter to die, alone, afraid and cold. I never saw Mr. Forrest fight, nor of his good works, and I agree give the guy the keys, it's just a car. Yet I know he had enough stars in Heavenly Crown to make a difference, both here and in Heaven.
7-27-2009 @ 11:34AM
gcoundou said...
nah... serious discussions like that that would interfere with their 5 course daily dinners and soires, and also their $90K a week upcoming vacation...
7-27-2009 @ 6:38AM
pamela B said...
I got carjacked in Las Vegas i handed them the keys as the pointed a shotgun and knife at me.
Is not worth fighting them.
RIP whate a wasteful way to go.
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7-27-2009 @ 9:45AM
flud78 said...
Wow! Unbelievable. Good to hear you weren't harmed.
7-27-2009 @ 6:42AM
Laura said...
A great man because of his big heart. I hope the killer is removed from this world.
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7-27-2009 @ 6:42AM
So It Begins!!! said...
Sigh, great fighter, even greater man... His body isn't cold yet and already you cretins want to politicize his tragic death by turning it into fodder for the gun lobby or capital punishment. How about taking two seconds to thank him for being a "clean" fighter and a "good and caring" man? How about one second to send your condolences to this grieving friends and family.
God why do I even read these responses.
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7-27-2009 @ 7:29AM
paluch395 said...
you are absolutely correct!! My deepest condolances to the family and friends of this greart individual who truely made a difference in this world. Let us all bow our heads in a moment of silence for Verron Forrest. amen. RIP you were one of humanities gems and your legacy will live on to encourage others to finish where you left off.
7-27-2009 @ 10:29AM
glendaaparis said...
I too read the responses until they get nasty. But this is a great story about a good man. I'm not a boxing fan so did not know who he was, however, I do now. God is with you Mr. Forrest.
7-27-2009 @ 6:50PM
kreceda said...
You are absolutely correct. Vernon Forrest was from my hometown and he never forgot where he came from. He was a great boxer and he was very giving and charitable. Instead of turning his death into a politic plot for reform of this and that...just take the time and say Goodbye, God Bless and you will forever be missed!